leaving dunya behavior behind

It was late one November evening when I had my 1st assurah with my husband and my two co-wives at this time my husband had two muslim wives and one non muslim wife. The reason for the assurah was because myself and my non muslim coco had a disagreement that could of lead to a physical altercation. This was where I learnt that a muslim blood is sacred and even though she was not muslim as of yet i still had to be an example of piety.....